Have you ever been involved in an threesome? Do you want to have one? Why is it you feel as if you need to have a threesome. Do you just consider yourself freaky or do you feel like you need help with your partner. Always remember. If you open that box, it is hard to close. If you partner wants a threesome and you are unsure, ask why?
I had a friend that decided that she wanted to engage in a threesome with her partner. It went well. They had fun. Problem is, she brought in one of HER friends. Well why was she suprised and angry when this friend starts to sleep with her man? Well, you opened that can of worms. So now since you have given your man permission to sleep with your "homegirl" they think that it is cool with you.
What you need to do, if you decide to have a threesome go out to a club. Pick a #random chick or dude (all about your prefrence). Get some mondo protection . Some toys and have a BLAST.
There are places that you can go and people that you can choose without compromising your relationship. Disposable if you will. Check out local swingers clubs. These people are here to have fun and then go home to their partner. They are not trying to destroy your relationship. They are not there to "get to know" you (unless you make the determination that you like them as a couple and they like you.)
If a threesome aint your thing, make a decision to shake it up in the bedroom. Come dressed like someone else. Talk, walk and FUCK like someone else. Turn on some porn. take some of those things that you have never done and do them. I know there are things that your man or your woman has requested that you were afraid to do or try. Do it for them. Suprise them. Give them what they want. This is what keeps sex exciting. Ladies, reach down and play with your pussy while your man watches. They like that type of thing. Men, turn your woman over and fuck her doggy style. We like that type thing.... Ijs
Questions?
Girl, that's the thing. It IS like giving them permission to have sex with that person from then on. Even if they were to get a stranger, the guy probably will still feel like he can call the random chick up when ever he wants to get some.
ReplyDeleteThe point is, just talk about it thoroughly. Make sure you actually want what might or might not come with it. They should have sat down and been open with each other about what would happen AFTER.
Which goes back to my first question, WHY do you want that threesome??
ReplyDeleteWhat if both partners want another person involved? They both agree to be with only that person. Lets say she is bi and needs a female and she is cool with him sexing her too.
ReplyDeleteThat is why I say why do you want that threesome. Everyones reasons aint as pure as that. When a guy suggests that you have a threesome its for a fantasy that they have to be with two women. When most men ask you to have a threesome with another man, there is some alterior motive. My first thought (especially when it comes out the blue) is that he wants to pin you sleeping with another man on you as his excuse for cheating (DONT DO IT!!)
ReplyDeleteI have been faced with that. I was like if you wanna sleep with someone else, just say that shit. Dont piss on my head and try to convince me that its raining... I aint no fool. The only reason you trying to get me to fuck another dude so that yo can use that as ammo to fuck another chick. Call it what it is.