Love (4letterword)

Ok, if you know me, you know my dislike for the four letter word, love. I have had my issues with it and although I don't completely hate it, I just kinda stay away from hurting myself again. I dont understand people that use this word sooo loosely. It all falls back, in my opinion, to them not knowing and loving themself. And seeking out approval from anywhere they can find it.

Understand this. The censorship of (4letterword) is limited to relationship love. When it comes to my family, there is nothing but love. When it comes to close friends I love them also. I am talking simply about the feeling that a woman and a man feel for each other that is not related by blood. I simply removed that word from my vocab unless we are referring to close close close friends and my loving family.




#sidenote I also love any guy that will give oral freely until the point of no return. #thatisall

Getting to know you

Do you know what you like sexually? There is nothing wrong with getting to know yourself. If you dont know you, then how in the hell do you expect to tell anyone else what you like. There is nothing wrong with going out and purchasing a toy or two. (If you are afraid to go out and purchase one from an adult book store, get with me. I have a home girl that sells toys and she will be more than happy to ship to you with a nominal fee.)

Toys allow you to try different things that you may be afraid or ashamed to ask your partner to do. They allow you to get in touch with yourself and explore things that you are too timid to try. No one knows but you. Same goes for men. We are not always fortunate enough to have a partner that is open to experimenting and is skilled enough to guide you through it so you HAVE got to figure things out for yourself. (In my time I have been fortunate enough to come across atleast 3 thoughtful freaks. Real freaks. Not self declared.)

I am seriously an advocate for self exploration. There are too many women that do not know what an orgasm feels like. Does not know what it is to cum versus having an orgasm. Afraid to try "large" insertions (yea, you got me on that one, but some are into that type shit) Anal. The joys of oral sex. If you dont reach down there and find what makes you feel all warm and tingly, you think you will ever be satisfied? #hellno

In addition to self gratification, you never know what type of role that touching yourself plays in the bedroom. It may open up doors that you never knew existed with your partner. They may enjoy watching that type of thing (i do personally). That can take you to a different level of "(4letterword) making".

Have fun.

Whisper (Females Rebuttal)

Hey how you doing sexy brother, let me wihisper in your ear.
Tell you something you might like to hear
You got a sexy ass body and you standing real tall.
Mind if we step to the side and talk.
Yea, so serious so forget your plans.
And im known to make a nasty man.
And they say a closed mouth don't get fed
so I don't mind asking for head....
You heard what I said, we need to make our way to the bed
so i can start rubbin your head.
Do you like to fuck? have a chick all in the buck.
Do it up, slappin ass cause the sex gets rough.
Switch positions and ready to get down to business.
So you can see what you've been missing...
You might had some but you never had none like this...
I cant wait till you lick my clit.


Ay bitch! can't wait till you lick my clit.
Cant wait till you lick my clit

Ay bitch! can't wait till you lick my clit.

Cant wait till you lick my clit

Ay bitch! can't wait till you lick my clit.

Cant wait till you lick my clit

Ay bitch! can't wait till you lick my clit.

Cant wait till you lick my clit

You betta beat dis pussy up. 

Like B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM, B-AM

eat da pussy up, eat da pussy up, eat da pussy up, eat da pussy up, eat da pussy up, eat da pussy up, eat da pussy Up, eat da pussy up

In need

sitting here thinking about you. Needing your smell, your touch, your warmth. I want to feel the feeling that you give me when you are close. When we are relaxing. Watching tv. I need to feel the feeling that you give me when you are inside of me. When you grind close against me. I need the smell you leave in my sheets, my hair. The smell that I smell when you are no where around.

I need you.

To cum or not to cum, that is the question

Do you know what it is like to have an orgasm?

Rewind, do you know what an orgasm is? 

Orgasm- The climax or peak of sexual pleasure which occurs during sexual activity and which in males may include ejaculation and in females vaginal contractions.

Ok, now that we have gotten that out of the way, do you know the difference between having an orgasm and cumming? (men, please take notice)
cum-to ejaculate or to feel the sensation of an orgasm

I put these definitions in here for a reason. Most guys, I have found, do not know the difference. Just because a chick tells you that she is cumming, does not mean that she has orgasmed. Sometime its hard to tell. I could not tell you the last time I had a genuine orgasm with a partner. The guys that I have messed with do not take the time to find out what I like. I know what I like. I can kinda maneuver my way around what he likes but he does not take the time (nor does he care) to find what really pushes me over the edge.

Not everything works the same for all persons. Just because what you did for that person just fucked up their whole game does not mean that shit is gonna fly for the next. Ask me what I like. I promise to tell you exactly what I am feeling. (incase you didnt notice) I enjoy oral and manual stimulation. When done right, its a wrap. I have found one guy that can handle that challenge and master it but I have not seen him in half past forever and he may not be what he used to be.

Next time you are with a chick #ifyougiveadamnaboutyourperformance find out did she orgasm or just cum and keep in mind, a mindblowing orgasm leaves no room for conversation. Just a FYI

Look for a part 2

How big is it?

I am a firm believer that it aint the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean. I know that is corny and sh!t but its the truth. They could have the biggest manhood in the world, and know it, but when it comes down to the stroke they take the size for granted. On the other hand, if they don't have the biggest manhood in the world and they know they are not the biggest, they work harder to get the biggest reaction.

I prefer the average brother that does not know that he has a nice size but is a little insecure about his size. He works the hardest to make sure that I am satisfied. And lets face it, we all have insecurities. But the average brother with the big heart will do whatever he can in his power to be sure that you get that #nut. If it takes manual stimulation, oral sex, toys or whatever. He will be sure that you get there.

Guys, we really don't care how big your dick is. Cause, usually, the bigger your dick, the more YOU are the only one that is on it. You think that you are pleasing us but really you are out to please yourself and your big a$$ head. Please spare me. That brings me to my next post, do you really know if your girl has orgasmed, or do you really care?

Does size really matter? Nope, not to me. Its the mentality behind what you put down. I can really dig a short deep stroke from a short deep person than I can a fun f#ck from someone that thinks they are the best. Biggest don't always mean best.

PSA #2: Ladies

Ladies, get over yourself....
Performing fellatio is a form of worship. In my opinion it should always be done on your knees, to his satisfaction and while allowing to think that you love it. Giving head was not meant for you to enjoy (unless pleasing your partner is enjoyment enough, which for me it is).

There is an art to oral sex (male and female). You can't just jump in and start bobble heading.... That shit don't work and it is unacceptable. I have seen many a man jump in and "say" they eat pussy when they really don't. They just do it because they think that is what I want. What most of us (guys and girls) dont realize is that just saying that you do it is not enough. You have to have pride in what you do.

You should do research first.
      Does he like oral sex? I have had guys tell me that it was not their thing.  If you have additional items (tounge rings, vibrators ect) find out if your partner digs that type of thing. For the first time in my life i had a guy tell me,while he could get with the tongue ring, he preferred that I take it out. He likes the basic service.

Try different techniques.
      Don't just get down there and do the basic up and down stroke. Work with your tongue, Try to deep throat him. Keep trying different things.

 LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER.
     When you are experimenting with your technique listen to your partners reaction. If he says nothing, maybe you should try something different. If that does not work, ask him what does. Watch porn and see what them chicks are doing. Read a blog. All goes back to step #1. Do your research. I love to hear my partner moan and tell me how much he enjoys it. The more turned on he is, the more turned on I get and the more I want to do it. Im an old soul so I can hang around working on a guy for 30-45 mins (if he is worth the effort) Or even just give him head and not even worrying about any type of reciprocation. (sometime its just best to please your partner)

If you have a good solid sexual relationship with your partner (does not have to be a boyfriend or husband. Can just be a lover) And you know your partner is in to please just as much as you are, the benefits are far greater than the sacrifices. It may be a completely submissive position, if you treat it right in the end you come out on top.