Do you know what you like sexually? There is nothing wrong with getting to know yourself. If you dont know you, then how in the hell do you expect to tell anyone else what you like. There is nothing wrong with going out and purchasing a toy or two. (If you are afraid to go out and purchase one from an adult book store, get with me. I have a home girl that sells toys and she will be more than happy to ship to you with a nominal fee.)
Toys allow you to try different things that you may be afraid or ashamed to ask your partner to do. They allow you to get in touch with yourself and explore things that you are too timid to try. No one knows but you. Same goes for men. We are not always fortunate enough to have a partner that is open to experimenting and is skilled enough to guide you through it so you HAVE got to figure things out for yourself. (In my time I have been fortunate enough to come across atleast 3 thoughtful freaks. Real freaks. Not self declared.)
I am seriously an advocate for self exploration. There are too many women that do not know what an orgasm feels like. Does not know what it is to cum versus having an orgasm. Afraid to try "large" insertions (yea, you got me on that one, but some are into that type shit) Anal. The joys of oral sex. If you dont reach down there and find what makes you feel all warm and tingly, you think you will ever be satisfied? #hellno
In addition to self gratification, you never know what type of role that touching yourself plays in the bedroom. It may open up doors that you never knew existed with your partner. They may enjoy watching that type of thing (i do personally). That can take you to a different level of "(4letterword) making".
Have fun.
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