To cum or not to cum, that is the question

Do you know what it is like to have an orgasm?

Rewind, do you know what an orgasm is? 

Orgasm- The climax or peak of sexual pleasure which occurs during sexual activity and which in males may include ejaculation and in females vaginal contractions.

Ok, now that we have gotten that out of the way, do you know the difference between having an orgasm and cumming? (men, please take notice)
cum-to ejaculate or to feel the sensation of an orgasm

I put these definitions in here for a reason. Most guys, I have found, do not know the difference. Just because a chick tells you that she is cumming, does not mean that she has orgasmed. Sometime its hard to tell. I could not tell you the last time I had a genuine orgasm with a partner. The guys that I have messed with do not take the time to find out what I like. I know what I like. I can kinda maneuver my way around what he likes but he does not take the time (nor does he care) to find what really pushes me over the edge.

Not everything works the same for all persons. Just because what you did for that person just fucked up their whole game does not mean that shit is gonna fly for the next. Ask me what I like. I promise to tell you exactly what I am feeling. (incase you didnt notice) I enjoy oral and manual stimulation. When done right, its a wrap. I have found one guy that can handle that challenge and master it but I have not seen him in half past forever and he may not be what he used to be.

Next time you are with a chick #ifyougiveadamnaboutyourperformance find out did she orgasm or just cum and keep in mind, a mindblowing orgasm leaves no room for conversation. Just a FYI

Look for a part 2