PSA #2: Ladies

Ladies, get over yourself....
Performing fellatio is a form of worship. In my opinion it should always be done on your knees, to his satisfaction and while allowing to think that you love it. Giving head was not meant for you to enjoy (unless pleasing your partner is enjoyment enough, which for me it is).

There is an art to oral sex (male and female). You can't just jump in and start bobble heading.... That shit don't work and it is unacceptable. I have seen many a man jump in and "say" they eat pussy when they really don't. They just do it because they think that is what I want. What most of us (guys and girls) dont realize is that just saying that you do it is not enough. You have to have pride in what you do.

You should do research first.
      Does he like oral sex? I have had guys tell me that it was not their thing.  If you have additional items (tounge rings, vibrators ect) find out if your partner digs that type of thing. For the first time in my life i had a guy tell me,while he could get with the tongue ring, he preferred that I take it out. He likes the basic service.

Try different techniques.
      Don't just get down there and do the basic up and down stroke. Work with your tongue, Try to deep throat him. Keep trying different things.

 LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER.
     When you are experimenting with your technique listen to your partners reaction. If he says nothing, maybe you should try something different. If that does not work, ask him what does. Watch porn and see what them chicks are doing. Read a blog. All goes back to step #1. Do your research. I love to hear my partner moan and tell me how much he enjoys it. The more turned on he is, the more turned on I get and the more I want to do it. Im an old soul so I can hang around working on a guy for 30-45 mins (if he is worth the effort) Or even just give him head and not even worrying about any type of reciprocation. (sometime its just best to please your partner)

If you have a good solid sexual relationship with your partner (does not have to be a boyfriend or husband. Can just be a lover) And you know your partner is in to please just as much as you are, the benefits are far greater than the sacrifices. It may be a completely submissive position, if you treat it right in the end you come out on top.