So the other day, i am sitting around chatting with my homegirl (about boys as usual) and she tells me about an encounter that she had with an old fling. I could tell that she was asking for advise so I listened with an attentive ear (cause thats how I get down, lol)
She started to tell me about an ex that she invited over to her place. I guess that they had been sleeping together or what not or what have you. They are not exclusive. I asked her had they even discussed the possibility of being exclusive and she was like, no. Then she proceded to tell me that this n!gga counted her rubbers.
Didnt think twice of it. I was like, he buy them?
Hell no...
Um, how was the sex?
(censored because all girl talk is kept strictly confidential)
Really?
Girl, yea.
Did he at least (again, censored)?
Hmph....
Soooo.... You have dropped him and moved along, RIGHT?
I believe so. That shit wasn't cool.
What in the HELL makes dude think that they have exclusivity because they have had a sexual encounter or two with a woman? Dude, if you didn't run the pussy, you DONT CONTROL the pussy. Keep that shit outta your head.
She went into more detail but because all girl talk is kept confidential, I cant disclose any details. I can end with this piece of advice.
If you wanna own the pussy, you gotta OWN the pussy. Its all about what you are willing to give and give up. You aint the one just cause you were the first, you were the ex, because you made a chick cum a time or two. Especially if you aint a chicks dude. Don't expect her to give up ANYTHING just because you are in the picture. That aint how life works. If you dont have an agreement, dont act like there was an automatic agreement. fuck that.
#bigdicksaintshit
Questions?
Im thinking more along the lines of... He was in YO house with the condoms YOU bought.... #boystop
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