People, we are becoming complacent in our relationships. We are beginning to think just cause we got them that we dont need to do anything to keep them. Case in point:
I have a couple of friends that come to me and we chit chat about relationships and give each other advice. Everyone knows that men have needs and so do women. Problem is, as women, we feel like me should cater to our needs and we dont have to recripocate. Them days iz over ladies. If you do not do it, trust me, there is a pack of she-bitch WOLVES waiting to devour your man. Especially if he is a good man. Single women can smell the sweetness of a good man from 100 miles away. There is just something about a guy that loves his wife/girl that sends out some crazy pheromones that make bitches howl at the moon.
Well, I have a friend. A good dude. A very good dude in my opinion. A Sweetheart. Very attractive (TRUST and BELIEVE baby is fine and smart. Double whammy) and he has been with his girl for a while. He is younger than me and I can tell by our conversation that he loves her. Problem is, people change. In my opinion those things that she did to grab his heart are not the same things that she needs to keep him interested. He just wants her attention. Ladies, we have to reassure our men that they are fine just like we want them to remind us. This is not an uncommon scenario now a days. I am hearing more and more that we are not taking care of our men emotionally as well as physically. What you dont understand is that there is only so much a person can take before they just dont care anymore.
He is not the first that has told me this. It seems like the finer the more they need to be ego-fed. If you love this man feed his belly and his ego until he can't eat any more. Then keep some canned and frozen for later reserves. If your man finally get up the nerve to tell you what he wants you should atleast try to oblidge.
* Play dress up
* do a little strip tease
* clean the house - Naked
* accidentialy drop the remote (not during a football game or True Blood)
* walk by and grab HIS ass (guys dig that shit too)
* tell him how incredibly fine he is
Let me elaborate. Tell that man how fine he is. Just walk by and just say, "Hey, boy.... wa cho name iz? Mmmm... forreal? You got a girl? You think she will mind if I take you for a test drive?" Or how about just stare at him. When he asks "what" just say "Shit, I dont even know, but it is FINE as HELL!" Or just a simple "Damn, baby. That shirt looks good on you. You should wear it more often" I promise. I PROMISE that little stuff will make a world of difference in your home and you will see the changes.
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